Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3
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Cybersex
Cybersex
Online affairs, cyber-sex, sexting and sex-chat now seems to be the new way of hooking up for safe sex without any commitment or risk – but is it? If you randomly ask anyone “What is unsafe sex” the reply will be “sex without a condom” that is the least of it. There are always consequences for our actions and sin always has a price to pay.
– Are you lonely tonight –
For those who are unfamiliar with this behaviour, I will briefly explain it to you. An online affair is an online (Internet) romantic and sexual relationship, sometimes one of brief duration, between two people who are not married to each other. You might think that this sounds harmless and boring because you aren’t really with the person, but these relationships touch spiritual, deep emotional, sexual needs and desires. They can grow into a more permanent relationship where you meet the person in the flesh, have sex, and start a relationship that can lead to marriage or children. Online sex-chat and affairs start small, but can quickly become big. It may seem low risk, because they cannot touch you, or know your name unless you want them to. Ideally, you should just be able to turn off the power to your computer, and just walk away, but online affairs and sex-chat have many unseen drawbacks and risks that in the end, can cost you and the person you are having the affair with, everything you love and value.
Although I do not want to educate people on how to sin, I do want people to understand this behaviour so that they can identify and avoid it. Sex-chat happens when two people get online and either chat on their messenger (Yahoo, AOL, MSN, or whatever you use), or they chat in public chat rooms and go into a private conversation. There are also dedicated free porn sites that offer real-time video sex chat. When these people chat, they type in a romantic/sexual dialogue that is meant to stimulate and arouse each other sexually and emotionally, and they usually masturbate while doing it. I know your first question is; “how can they do all that with two hands?” Well, I guess you just have to be motivated and skilled enough, and that’s as far as I will go with that. Some people also have web cams, which allow them to visually interact, as well as using their microphone rather than using a keyboard to communicate. When they are done, they may move on to someone else, or become more attached to each other emotionally and begin a deeper online relationship.
-Not tonight Dear I’m loggin On –
Some people may take their relationship to the next level and meet, or some people actually leave their spouse and kids for their new online romance. The feelings of lust and infatuation can be very strong, but also very misleading and deceiving. You might think this is a horrible, selfish, and disgusting way for a responsible mother or father to act, but it is no different than throwing your life away for drugs or alcohol. They may be trying to relieve old unhealed emotional pain with sensual and emotional pleasure. We must be careful to always try to be objective about someone else’s problems, especially if you think you are beyond committing them. Cybersex is like ice cream, it may come in many flavours, but it’s still all just ice cream (and poisonous at that). Just because you like chocolate, and someone else likes vanilla, doesn’t mean that your ice cream is any better or worse than somebody else’s. The root problem and answer are the same for all who are trapped in sin.
Often after a climax during sex-chat, the lust subsides, and the guilt kicks in. You swear you will never do “that” again, and resolve to do what’s right from now on. The problem is, sin doesn’t let you off the hook that easy. That romance fix, or sexual fix you got today, will be crying out for even more gratification tomorrow. Plus, there is the physical need to have sex that will come back and push you for more gratification. What you used to think you controlled, now controls you. Some people throw their computers away, but loneliness and lust call them back again. Many people eventually get caught by their spouse, kids, boss, or someone else, and in one second everyone’s trust in you, and your reputation, can take a huge nosedive. If it is your spouse that catches you, you may be packing a suitcase, if it’s a boss, you may be cleaning out your desk. Does this sound far-fetched to you? Well, trust me, it’s not. It is a very serious problem in our culture and society today. Many marriages have been ruined by online affairs and sex-chat.
Are you playing spiritual roulette? click here to find out
– filling the void –
Most men who are heavily into pornography lose interest in natural sex. Many women who were not affirmed and valued properly by their fathers will never feel validated as an adult woman, and will unconsciously and vicariously try to meet that unmet need through an affair(s). Online affairs, and sex-chat are nothing more than life-cheating adultery. God made good rules for us to live by, and we will be at our happiest, healthiest, and most satisfied, when we follow them. God also wants to heal your heart at the root level, from all the old unhealed emotional pain that you are trying to manage and relieve through sexual pleasure (affairs, sex chat, masturbation). If you are having an online affair or sex-chatting problem right now, then there is a way out of this dark hole you are trapped in my friend. If you are truly willing to let go of this addiction, God will do everything to help you. There are many people and couples, who have successfully worked through this, but you must be willing to surrender this problem to The Lordship of Jesus Christ completely. click here to go to Cybersex prayer.
It’s not only the adults who are involved in sexting, our kids don’t use their mobiles like we do. Check out this Teen sexting graph to see what they are up to.
Gen3x – Fighting Pornography
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3
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Is The Church Alive?
God’s Church today is being raped and pillaged by an invasion of Pornography and sexual impurity. There are alarming levels of promiscuity among those who call themselves believers of Jesus Christ. So many Christians are totally oblivious to the spreading epidemic of pornography in the Body of Christ today, but they shouldn’t be, since it occurs in the church as much as the world.
– The last taboo –
When it comes to pornography and sexual immorality, the church is a lazy sleeping giant. Church leaders need to be more aware and open to what men and women are struggling with today. Do they honestly believe that this problem is only happening in the denomination down the road or across the other side of the world? Or perhaps if they leave it alone long enough it just might go away by itself! Do they really care? Because that seems to be the message that they are putting out. The church has done well in addressing and highlighting many issues over the past like poverty, slavery, domestic violence, broken homes, divorce, unmarried/single mothers, alcoholic and drug addictions, etc. But there is still a taboo surrounding the subject of the sexually broken within the Body of Christ. It’s sad to think that there are millions of believers caught up in pornography yet so little being done to help. Why are we happy putting up with a Church that isn’t prepared to face up to the fact that pornography, along with sexual immorality, equals sexual brokenness with in the body of Christ?
We’ve all sat in church pouring out our sympathy and compassion as we have listened to the testimony of the alcoholic and drug addict, and rightly so, these are life destroying addictions, but the moment a guy stands up to talk about pornography, compulsive masturbation WELL that’s another story. You see most of the condemnation is coming from within the church. Satan also knows that every Kingdom divided against itself is laid waste and no house divided against itself will stand Matt 12: 25.
– Is Pornography Satan’s Trojan horse within the Church? –
We all know that it’s here, we can see and feel it’s effect all round us, but we are all too afraid to stand up too it in case it exposes what we’ve been up too.
We know what happens in the world, Satan has them were he wants them, deceived and blinded under the influence of his global media empire. His message is attacking Gods values every day.
Satan especially likes to pervert sex because sex was intended for marriage only. Marriage was the first institution God created and it is the cornerstone of society. God says the marriage bed is to be honoured and not to be defiled Heb 13:4 so Satan has gone all out to completely destroy marriage and pervert sex.
The world is throwing this filth in our faces every day, deceiving us into believing that it’s no big deal, it’s all harmless fun – we’re supposed to be modern men – we can handle it, but the moment we resist and repent, stand up and cry out for the millionth time “no more!! ” where do we go from there? Where is the church to be found in all of this? Where is the help? Where is the understanding, the support, the accountability, the compassion, the hope, the guidance, the restoration, the Church? WHERE IS IT?????
Instead we end up going faithfully to a church that’s almost divided and exploited because of its laziness/ ignorance. Has got its head stuck firmly in the sand and that’s pretty ill-equipped to tackle this problem head on, taking advice from leaders; who aren’t themselves totally pure or properly equipped for this battle. Why do we end up running the gauntlet and listening to the double standards of the holier than thou brigade as they ridicule a Pastor or brother who has fallen into this area of sexual sin? Putting up with a chorus of pervert, filthy beast, dirty old man and the rest of the taunts that we have all cringed to, whilst trying to give the impression that there’s nothing going on in our own lives. Why is the Christian Army the only army who shoot their wounded?
John 8 v 7 – he that is without sin among you let him first cast the stone.
– Pornography doesn’t discriminate –
We shouldn’t be surprised at the attacks of the enemy. Scripture has pre-warned us about this invasion in the last days. Rev 12 :15 The serpent poured water like a river out of his mouth after the woman to sweep her away with a flood. Who cannot deny that pornography has come in like a tsunami upon society and especially against the church in these last days, sweeping away men and their families, Pastors, Church leaders, Sunday school teachers, Worship leaders and anything else that gets in its way?
We can all remember the aftermath of the damage caused by the tsunami in Japan. What sort of damage is the wave of pornography leaving behind on a more personal level? 47% of families in the U.S. claim that pornography is a problem in the home and now pornography seems to be a contributing factor in divorce.
Is it any wonder that Satan is mocking the body of Christ? All this destruction is happening during a time of unparalleled church growth. So while mass evangelism is bringing people in through the front door, the evil one is dragging them out the back door through impurity. The Church must do something. This problem can’t go on any longer unnoticed and unchecked, there needs to be greater awareness to the struggles that men and women are facing and keeping in secret. Church needs to waken up to the extent and severity of this problem and rise up to meet it. Who gets the shame and blame when a Christian is exposed in sexual immorality? We carry and represent the name of Jesus.
When was the last time you heard a service preached on a Sunday morning about the elephant sitting in the pew? I mean that this issue is so big it’s a wonder how it has went so long without being noticed or more importantly challenged.
In fact over 40% of church goers want to hear more of this topic in church.
What are the shepherds getting up to? Click here to find out.
There is no point getting upset at another pastor falling into sin, if we choose to refuse and even acknowledge that there is a problem. We have to be praying for our leaders and sharing in each other’s burden. Pornography doesn’t discriminate, it isn’t prejudice, it doesn’t care if you are Presbyterian, Methodist, Baptist, Brethren, Anglican, Non-Denominational, Catholic – it has the welcome mat out for everybody. We must get out of our camp’s lay aside our doctrines and show a united front against this unholy crusade that the body of Christ is experiencing. Click here to go to Is the Church Alive prayer
Gen 3x – Overcoming Pornography
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3
Spiritually, you are putting your marriage under a huge risk, God has said that the only legal sexual relationship to Him, is a husband and wife having sexual intercourse for the purpose of marital intimacy, mutual physical pleasure,or for creating children. Matt 5:27-28 Jesus said that if you are even looking at someone to lust after them and fantasizing, you are having sex with them (a necessary requirement for masturbation), then you are guilty of real adultery. Anyone who has sex-chatted for a time can tell you that it is more than just sex. There is a spiritual union and intimacy that takes place when doing it, where you mingle your soul with the other person you are having cyber sex with. God said in Mark 10 8 “the two shall become one flesh“, which means there has been an ungodly union to another person who you are not married too so you end up being soul-tied to that person wherever you go, which is why many spouses can spiritually pick up if you have been with someone else. You will end up with “spiritual lipstick” on your collar. God has said very clearly, 1Cor: 6 v 9 that anyone who habitually commits sexual sin will not be allowed into heaven and there is only one other place to go after that, hell. He alone is the only one that created and designed the human body, so He alone has the right to tell us the right and wrong way can use our bodies sexually. If your car breaks down, you consult the manufacturer to fix it, because they have made the car, and know the right way to use and repair the car. God is our Manufacturer.
In the latter stages of an online romance, it is usually either broken off, taken to the next level, or discovered by others, and then that person may end up divorced for adultery. If a woman sees no future in a relationship, or if the affair has lost its romantic spark, she may just break things off and move on to find her needs met by somebody new. Because of the ungodly soul-ties involved it may take several tries to finally end the relationship and it won’t be an easy process. A man will carry on the relationship as long as he gets sexual pleasure out of it. Most online affairs do nothing but dirty a persons soul, make them a nervous wreck afraid of getting caught, and/or cause deep depression, shame, and guilt that they try to relieve with other kinds of pleasure fixes like drugs, smoking, food, or alcohol. Even if you don’t get caught, you will always have to carry that guilt around inside you, which can be a terrible burden and weight to bear. Or they may worry that their ex-lover may come back around and somehow tell on them. It is hard to look into your children’s eyes every day, knowing the risk you are taking with their future and lives.
Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3
Are you living under a curse of LUST?
Lust is stalking you everywhere you go, waiting for an opportunity to whisper it’s lies and destruction into your life. It’s ready to gloat and condemn you as you fall for them, lust opposes the truth of God and wants nothing more than to see you living a broken life.
– Are you fanning the flames of Lust? –
Lust, one of the seven deadly sins, small word but a big problem. This sin will destroy a person’s life and marriage, career and reputation like nothing else. All sexual sin begins with a little lust, and will open the door to all kinds of perverseness, wickedness and heartache. The one who surrenders to lust will never be fully satisfied until climax or self-satisfaction is achieved and still this is only temporary. Godly men, who would never physically hurt or harm their wives, will abuse and defile the marriage bed in order to relieve this evil desire through selfish sex. Lust doesn’t become a problem overnight, we choose what we plant – a lustful thought here, a lustful glance over there and before you know it you have fed it so much that it soon becomes a beast, controlling and guiding your decisions in life. So many believers lust after the flesh every day and wonder why they aren’t reaping holiness.
Mortifying lust will be one of the biggest battles that we will face in our lifetime. Any man with a pulse in his body knows how hard it is to deal with lust, in fact any man who hasn’t struggled with lust needs to check his body for a pulse. The chances are that in the past you have tried to break free from lust and failed. Lust breeds and thrives on isolation like a leech, lust attaches itself to the soul and sucks it dry. Lust ruins your relationship with God and others. It darkens the heart, robs us of our spiritual vitality and leaves a spiritual vacuum that the demonic are ready to fill. Lust isn’t interested in sex, doesn’t even want it, if it were you would be happy with what you have. Instead, lust is looking for the forbidden, driving you down the fast lane to destruction taking you further than you were ever prepared to go.
You can’t negotiate or reason with lust or hope to meet it half way. It’s an “all or nothing”, “take it or leave it” attitude. You can’t run away from lust either. It’s there following you, stalking you, watching you, testing you, probing you, ready to ensnare you wherever you turn; waiting for an opportunity to bring you down.
The trinity of lust is Me, Myself and I. The mantra of lust is “I want it, I need it, I must have it NOW”. Never satisfied, never content – like an itch without a scratch.
The power of lust is whispered through the lie and the promise; guaranteeing that satisfaction and fulfilment can be found in everything except God. Always urging you on, promising that this time will be better than the last, nobody will ever find out; basically promising us what God can’t. The only way to fight lust is with the promises of God, the bible has over 7000 of them. Lets take a look at the most popular lies that lust promotes and the truth that scripture reveals click here to go to The Lies That Lust Promotes
– Lust comes at a Price –
Lust has probably being responsible for bringing down more Church Leaders, missionaries, godly men and women and caused more division among congregations, ruined more ministries than anything else. How many men and women were once called to extraordinary ministries and lost their anointing, quenched the spirit and forfeited their inheritance for another hour of lust filled pornography, adultery or something worse? Lust is stealing the attention of men and women away from the plans that God has for them, you are probably reading this knowing that God is calling you into a greater experience with Him but you can’t seem to conqueror this one little thing in your life.
Guys, I’m not going to teach you all how to suck eggs, each one of you have experienced lust falling prey to its lies and felt the devastation that it leaves behind.
Gal 6 7 do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. 8 For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. 9 And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.
Lust will slowly open you up to spirits that want to complete the job but in the most horrific ways. Spirits of lust cannot be satisfied by sex or any other means! They will drive a person to commit acts or do sexual acts they would never think possible in order to get relief. It is a supernatural evil a demonic sex drive that taunts day & night, and every waking moment relentlessly, causing severe pain if not relieved. Demons of lust will tear the flesh of innocent infants, babies, children, youth, anyone or anything (even animals) to penetrate and reach a climax.
We have all sat and listened in shock and repulsion to the news headlines as they carry more and more sickening stories of sexual abuse or murder, thinking that it can’t be real, but it is and it was probably driven by lust. Deception, apathy, silence and isolation are Satan’s greatest weapons in this battle. If we continue to play ostrich with this issue more men and more families will be taken out.
The guy trapped in the spiral of pornography will know that he needs help, but ashamed of confessing what his desire for lust has led him into. If you are serious about conquering lust, start today and let the Holy Spirit break the chains of lust over your life. Click here to go to prayer
Gen3x – Fighting Pornography Together
“Hear, O Israel, Ye Approach This Day Unto Battle Against Your Enemies: Let Not Your Hearts Faint, Fear Not, And Do Not Tremble, Neither Be Ye Terrified Because Of Them. “Deuteronomy 20v3